I grew up listening to a song called "pour some sugar on me" by Def Leppard. I'm not sure why that was in my head today as I was reading except that if I were going to entitle this Thought today I would Call it "pour some Gravy on Me".
When have you spoken with your spouse last, your children, your parents, maybe your best friend? Important relationships demand time and communication. Those relationships that are most important are like frosting on a cake or gravy on your taters. They just add so much more that the staples. Their is the intangible blessings of just knowing someone is in your corner and loves you literally NO MATTER What. That's why I need prayer -
"A prayerless soul is a Christless soul. Prayer is the lisping of the believing infant, the shout of the fighting believer, the requiem of the dying saint falling asleep in Jesus. It is the breath, the watchword, the comfort, the strength, the honour of a Christian. If thou be a child of God, thou wilt seek thy Father’s face, and live in thy Father’s love."Spurgeon, C. H. (2006). Morning and evening: Daily readings (Complete and unabridged; New modern edition.). Peabody, MA: Hendrickson Publishers.
Good morning, do I have your attention now!?
" 19 Therefore Jesus answered and was saying to them, "Truly, truly, I say to you, the Son can do nothing of Himself, unless it is something He sees the Father doing; for whatever the Father does, these things the Son also does in like manner. (Joh 5:19 NAU)
23 After He had sent the crowds away, He went up on the mountain by Himself to pray; and when it was evening, He was there alone. (MT 14:23)
In the early morning, while it was still dark, Jesus got up, left the house, and went away to a secluded place, and was praying
there. (MK 1:35)
12 It was at this time that He went off to the mountain to pray, and He spent the whole night in prayer to God. (LK 6:12)
16 But Jesus Himself would often slip away to the wilderness and pray. (LK 5:16)
Jesus priority was doing the Father's will - In fact it was not just the Father's will it was to do, act, and say, and think ...to BE just like the Father. I'm wondering this morning how many of us still view prayer as a mundane task of repetition? When our FATHER views it as pure joy just to talk and speak to us. To reassure us to encourage us, to prepare us for what is on His agenda for us today, to strengthen us for the unexpected or the unholy.
You see; how would your conversation change with the Father if you knew what Jesus knew about prayer - 20 "For the Father loves the Son, and shows Him all things that He Himself is doing; and the Father will show Him greater works than these, so that you will marvel. (Joh 5:20 NAU)
Now you know why Jesus "would often slip away to the wilderness and pray." It was great having my oldest daughter home for Christmas and just being able to talk about her hopes and dreams and future with her wonderful husband. It filled me with hope for the future, it moved me to action to see her living and then returning for advice and encouragement and funny as it may sound, just to make sure that her Dad hadn't lost his little girl. She is all grown up but still needed her daddy. No more to do for her but just for pure LOVE and affection and encouragement. That's gravy !!!!!
Have you spoken to your DADDY (Abba) today? Maybe you should HE's just waiting to poor GRAVY all over you.
May the giver of everything good and every perfect gift from above; the Father of lights, Bless you and poor gravy all over your life today as you just talk with HIM -
Pastor G
New American Standard Bible: 1995 update. (1995). (Mt 14:23). LaHabra, CA: The Lockman Foundation.
New American Standard Bible: 1995 update. (1995). (Mk 1:35). LaHabra, CA: The Lockman Foundation.
New American Standard Bible: 1995 update. (1995). (Lk 6:12). LaHabra, CA: The Lockman Foundation.
New American Standard Bible: 1995 update. (1995). (Lk 5:16). LaHabra, CA: The Lockman Foundation.
Thursday, January 2, 2014
" 18 What then? Only that in every way, whether in pretense or in truth, Christ is proclaimed; and in this I rejoice.
Yes, and I will rejoice,
19 for I know that this will turn out for my deliverance through your prayers and the provision of the Spirit of Jesus Christ,
20 according to my earnest expectation and hope, that I will not be put to shame in anything, but that with all boldness, Christ will even now, as always, be exalted in my body, whether by life or by death.
21 For to me, to live is Christ and to die is gain."
(New American Standard Bible: 1995 update. (1995). (Php 1:18–21). LaHabra, CA: The Lockman Foundation.)
Paul speaks here of a sure and certain sea of joy that wells up in his soul when Jesus is preached, teached, praised, adored, exalted, and at the very least even when someone is trying to extort or selfishly fulfill their desires Jesus is still proclaimed. Therefore he will find joy in that. Not only that Christ is preached but that the preaching of Christ's death resurrection according to the scriptures will lead to His ultimate freedom for he was taken in chains for preaching the gospel. Paul wasn't anticipating walking these earthly streets or eating a good meal or drinking a vintage wine Paul was relishing in the fact that even should the chains that bound him on this earth presently never be loosed these chains would never ultimately fill his soul with despair because even if he remains bound till death, He know because of the preaching of Jesus He will be free. "For to me, to live is Christ and to die is gain."
We all love that last verse but I believe many of us do not understand the pain and suffering behind it. Paul is ready to die because it means ultimate freedom for him and peace, but if he must draw breath one more time on this side of eternity then it will be exhaled as a proclamation of the gospel of the one who owns his life, JESUS.
So folks, my take away from this passage today:
#1 - what is it that motivates me to breathe; if it is not Jesus is it really worthy of all the other breaths I breath? Then I need the gospel today because it really is the best thing about my day.
#2 - Am I enjoying life? Because Jesus lived and died so that I might have life and have it more abundantly. If not then I need the Gospel today; because the gospel really is the best thing about my life today.
#3 - have I become so focused on my life, pain, situation, etc. that I have missed the release and freedom found in Jesus? Have I really become so selfish that I am not even willing to let the ONE who has saved me use me to bring HIM glory and others to the same freedom I have been given? If so then I need the gospel today because that is the best thing about my day.
Is "for to you, to live is Christ and to die gain" ? Really.... think about that then live like the gospel has changed your life.
May God bless you and keep you today.
Pastor G
Yes, and I will rejoice,
19 for I know that this will turn out for my deliverance through your prayers and the provision of the Spirit of Jesus Christ,
20 according to my earnest expectation and hope, that I will not be put to shame in anything, but that with all boldness, Christ will even now, as always, be exalted in my body, whether by life or by death.
21 For to me, to live is Christ and to die is gain."
(New American Standard Bible: 1995 update. (1995). (Php 1:18–21). LaHabra, CA: The Lockman Foundation.)
Paul speaks here of a sure and certain sea of joy that wells up in his soul when Jesus is preached, teached, praised, adored, exalted, and at the very least even when someone is trying to extort or selfishly fulfill their desires Jesus is still proclaimed. Therefore he will find joy in that. Not only that Christ is preached but that the preaching of Christ's death resurrection according to the scriptures will lead to His ultimate freedom for he was taken in chains for preaching the gospel. Paul wasn't anticipating walking these earthly streets or eating a good meal or drinking a vintage wine Paul was relishing in the fact that even should the chains that bound him on this earth presently never be loosed these chains would never ultimately fill his soul with despair because even if he remains bound till death, He know because of the preaching of Jesus He will be free. "For to me, to live is Christ and to die is gain."
We all love that last verse but I believe many of us do not understand the pain and suffering behind it. Paul is ready to die because it means ultimate freedom for him and peace, but if he must draw breath one more time on this side of eternity then it will be exhaled as a proclamation of the gospel of the one who owns his life, JESUS.
So folks, my take away from this passage today:
#1 - what is it that motivates me to breathe; if it is not Jesus is it really worthy of all the other breaths I breath? Then I need the gospel today because it really is the best thing about my day.
#2 - Am I enjoying life? Because Jesus lived and died so that I might have life and have it more abundantly. If not then I need the Gospel today; because the gospel really is the best thing about my life today.
#3 - have I become so focused on my life, pain, situation, etc. that I have missed the release and freedom found in Jesus? Have I really become so selfish that I am not even willing to let the ONE who has saved me use me to bring HIM glory and others to the same freedom I have been given? If so then I need the gospel today because that is the best thing about my day.
Is "for to you, to live is Christ and to die gain" ? Really.... think about that then live like the gospel has changed your life.
May God bless you and keep you today.
Pastor G
I am awestruck once again by my reading today.
"Thirst is terrible, but Jesus can remove it. Though the soul were utterly famished, Jesus could restore it.
Proclamation is made most freely, that every thirsty one is welcome. No other distinction is made but that of thirst. Whether it be the thirst of avarice, ambition, pleasure, knowledge, or rest, he who suffers from it is invited. The thirst may be bad in itself, and be no sign of grace, but rather a mark of inordinate sin longing to be gratified with deeper draughts of lust; but it is not goodness in the creature which brings him the invitation, the Lord Jesus sends it freely, and without respect of persons.
No waiting or preparation is so much as hinted at. Drinking represents a reception for which no fitness is required. A fool, a thief, a harlot can drink; and so sinfulness of character is no bar to the invitation to believe in Jesus. We want no golden cup, no bejewelled chalice, in which to convey the water to the thirsty; the mouth of poverty is welcome to stoop down and quaff the flowing flood. Blistered, leprous, filthy lips may touch the stream of divine love; they cannot pollute it, but shall themselves be purified. Jesus is the fount of hope. Dear reader, hear the dear Redeemer’s loving voice as he cries to each of us,
“IF ANY MAN THIRST,
LET HIM
COME UNTO ME
AND DRINK.”
Spurgeon, C. H. (2006). Morning and evening: Daily readings (Complete and unabridged; New modern edition.). Peabody, MA: Hendrickson Publishers.
Spurgeon, C. H. (2006). Morning and evening: Daily readings (Complete and unabridged; New modern edition.). Peabody, MA: Hendrickson Publishers.
Both of these quotes come from "Morning and Evening" a devotional written by Spurgeon. The verse is from 37 Now on the last day, the great day of the feast, Jesus stood and cried out, saying, "If anyone is thirsty, let him come to Me and drink.
38 "He who believes in Me, as the Scripture said, 'From his innermost being will flow rivers of living water.'"
(Joh 7:37-38 NAU)
Would you consider with me today and even maybe accept a challenge over the next month or year ? Am I being stingy with God's living water? After all it is not mine it is HIS and HE does say "ANYONE is thirsty" not just those with pretty blue eyes and great complexions. If you find yourself being stingy like myself then would you join me in thinking out-loud (here on FB), of how we can become outgoing and generous with this living water that dry weary, thirsty souls can be quenched with the love and grace of our eternal savior, JESUS.
If anyone is thirsty, let him come to Me and drink
Praying for you to be a drip today....
God Bless and Happy New Year!!!!!!!!
Pastor G
"Thirst is terrible, but Jesus can remove it. Though the soul were utterly famished, Jesus could restore it.
Proclamation is made most freely, that every thirsty one is welcome. No other distinction is made but that of thirst. Whether it be the thirst of avarice, ambition, pleasure, knowledge, or rest, he who suffers from it is invited. The thirst may be bad in itself, and be no sign of grace, but rather a mark of inordinate sin longing to be gratified with deeper draughts of lust; but it is not goodness in the creature which brings him the invitation, the Lord Jesus sends it freely, and without respect of persons.
No waiting or preparation is so much as hinted at. Drinking represents a reception for which no fitness is required. A fool, a thief, a harlot can drink; and so sinfulness of character is no bar to the invitation to believe in Jesus. We want no golden cup, no bejewelled chalice, in which to convey the water to the thirsty; the mouth of poverty is welcome to stoop down and quaff the flowing flood. Blistered, leprous, filthy lips may touch the stream of divine love; they cannot pollute it, but shall themselves be purified. Jesus is the fount of hope. Dear reader, hear the dear Redeemer’s loving voice as he cries to each of us,
“IF ANY MAN THIRST,
LET HIM
COME UNTO ME
AND DRINK.”
Spurgeon, C. H. (2006). Morning and evening: Daily readings (Complete and unabridged; New modern edition.). Peabody, MA: Hendrickson Publishers.
Spurgeon, C. H. (2006). Morning and evening: Daily readings (Complete and unabridged; New modern edition.). Peabody, MA: Hendrickson Publishers.
Both of these quotes come from "Morning and Evening" a devotional written by Spurgeon. The verse is from 37 Now on the last day, the great day of the feast, Jesus stood and cried out, saying, "If anyone is thirsty, let him come to Me and drink.
38 "He who believes in Me, as the Scripture said, 'From his innermost being will flow rivers of living water.'"
(Joh 7:37-38 NAU)
Would you consider with me today and even maybe accept a challenge over the next month or year ? Am I being stingy with God's living water? After all it is not mine it is HIS and HE does say "ANYONE is thirsty" not just those with pretty blue eyes and great complexions. If you find yourself being stingy like myself then would you join me in thinking out-loud (here on FB), of how we can become outgoing and generous with this living water that dry weary, thirsty souls can be quenched with the love and grace of our eternal savior, JESUS.
If anyone is thirsty, let him come to Me and drink
Praying for you to be a drip today....
God Bless and Happy New Year!!!!!!!!
Pastor G
"You must bear the cross, or you shall never wear the crown; you must wade through the mire, or you shall never walk the golden pavement. Cheer up, then, poor Christian. “Better is the end of a thing than the beginning thereof.” (Ecc 7:8) " I was reading this this morning and I began to pray for you all and this is what the Holy Spirit laid on my heart to share with you all.....
Many a weary saint do I get to encourage along this narrow way who have been waylaid by the slogging and sloshing through the muck and swamp mire we call life on this Earth. If we were to just sit, soak, and sour in our salvation all we would have would be a ticket stub to a prom. We would never have entered, we would never have known the exilerations of heart thumping at seeing our future spouses, we would never known the heart wrenching crisis of rejection when spurned for our first request to dance. All we would be at the beginning is a cucumber sitting in the swill of briny sin waiting for something, or someone to be the catalyst in our change. Yet by God's amazing wonder and great love HE reaches down and takes us lumps of coal and places us in a canister that is the church; a rock tumbler of sorts. In this tumbling and bumbling and bumping and knocking together the rough and unattractive carbon is removed for it takes these hard knocks of life to remove carbon and reveal what is of greater value beneath. Still yet we think that that now a precious gem is revealed that this process long since begun is finished because a jewel has been shown forth. NOOOOOO, God is not finished yet!!!!! From that precious stone a majestic, one of a kind royal, stone must still be made. So it is that the master smith begins to study our hearts and attitudes, our thoughts, words, and actions. HE places us into the jewelers vice where we are squeezed till it hurts us from its pressure and then there is a sharp smack from the chisel and hammer; and what we thought would be unbearable to live with out the Master with one precise blow removes from our lives to reveal an even more stunning view of Jesus in us as HE fashions into a fitting jewel for HIS crown of Glory. It is not till all the rough pain of tumbling and chiseling has been completed that the precious is left to reveal the true treasure God has saved us for. So today as you wade through, as the slogging weighs you down, as the wet and cold wearies your soul and brings you to the brink of exhaustion and throwing in the towel. Remember... "the end is always better than the beginning... GOD has not finished revealing His glory through you yet, there is just a little more carbon left to knock off, one more chisel blow and the SON will shine through in such unmistakable beauty; it will dazzle all those you know and lead many to Jesus. God loves you just the way you are...He loves you so much He doesn't want to leave you that way... HE knows just how beautiful you are and is determined for the World to see that beauty also.
God Bless you -
Pastor G
Spurgeon, C. H. (2006). Morning and evening: Daily readings (Complete and unabridged; New modern edition.). Peabody, MA: Hendrickson Publishers.
Great Joy
8 In the same region there were some shepherds staying out in the fields and keeping watch over their flock by night.
9 And an angel of the Lord suddenly stood before them, and the glory of the Lord shone around them; and they were terribly frightened.
10 But the angel said to them, "Do not be afraid; for behold, I bring you good news of great joy which will be for all the people;
11 for today in the city of David there has been born for you a Savior, who is Christ the Lord.
12 "This will be a sign for you: you will find a baby wrapped in cloths and lying in a manger."
13 And suddenly there appeared with the angel a multitude of the heavenly host praising God and saying,
14 "Glory to God in the highest, And on earth peace among men with whom He is pleased." (Luk 2:8-14 NAU)
Remember Family this Christmas, That the Gospel (Good News) is For you personally even if you already have a life long personal relationship with Jesus. We need the Gospel re-infused into our lives everyday just to get through each day in fact the Gospel is the best thing about my day as I am reminded about how much Jesus loves me. That is when it becomes "Great Joy" (supersedes my attitudes, circumstances, feelings, and takes preeminence in my life), it changes my thinking feeling and doing for the day and I glorify God the Father because of it.
How is the Gospel going to bring you Great Joy today?
Merry Christmas~
With Great Love
Ris and Glen
8 In the same region there were some shepherds staying out in the fields and keeping watch over their flock by night.
9 And an angel of the Lord suddenly stood before them, and the glory of the Lord shone around them; and they were terribly frightened.
10 But the angel said to them, "Do not be afraid; for behold, I bring you good news of great joy which will be for all the people;
11 for today in the city of David there has been born for you a Savior, who is Christ the Lord.
12 "This will be a sign for you: you will find a baby wrapped in cloths and lying in a manger."
13 And suddenly there appeared with the angel a multitude of the heavenly host praising God and saying,
14 "Glory to God in the highest, And on earth peace among men with whom He is pleased." (Luk 2:8-14 NAU)
Remember Family this Christmas, That the Gospel (Good News) is For you personally even if you already have a life long personal relationship with Jesus. We need the Gospel re-infused into our lives everyday just to get through each day in fact the Gospel is the best thing about my day as I am reminded about how much Jesus loves me. That is when it becomes "Great Joy" (supersedes my attitudes, circumstances, feelings, and takes preeminence in my life), it changes my thinking feeling and doing for the day and I glorify God the Father because of it.
How is the Gospel going to bring you Great Joy today?
Merry Christmas~
With Great Love
Ris and Glen
Thursday, January 10, 2013
Face Book and Failing forward
My daughter has a fascination with turtles. I was thinking of turtles today. I felt like a turtle, I guess, not knowing what a turtle feels or thinks like; but let me explain and then maybe you can identify with me also.
Have you ever been busy and engrossed in whatever you were doing like a turtle with your head in your shell. You stop for a moment pop your head out look up, you see the sun shining the clouds float by and pop your head back in to your shell and think wow it's great outside I think I will get out of my shell and enjoy the world for awhile. You pop your head out and get the rest of yourself out of the shell only to realize that where you find yourself is in the middle of the freeway with cars racing by and dodging horns blaring and possibly the sudden calamity of .... I think my analogy will work from there.
I found this happened to me yesterday. I popped my head out after being buried deep in my studies and sermon preparations to hop on FB awhile just to blow off steam and see what was going on in the world around ME.
I came across a quote on a dear friends wall, without thinking, and trying to sound as pithy and profound as I could I made my comment that would change all of history as we know it, or at least in my small mind anyway. I moved on didn't think any more about it and later on that night went to bed and slept quite peacefully I might add.
When I awoke, as is my custom, I checked my emails + FB messages to delete the trash and don't bother with ones, and to prioritize the one that are left for my reply's. I came across a message from my friend and before I could get past the first sentence I realized that my pithy and profound comment had wounded and offended them. I thought very humbly to myself... how could what I have written been offensive to them they must have a problem I won't worry about it. That didn't settle it and the Holy Spirit wouldn't let me forget it either.
The struggle of humbling yourself before a Holy God is huge and I personally hate even possibly considering that I could be wrong in any way. Between the gnawing pangs in my conscience and the racing replays of my comments I relented because of the awesome power of God. Like I would have won any way, not a chance.
The Holy Spirit began to show me where I had acted like this turtle analogy I shared earlier. I popped my head out to see what was going on with out looking to see where I was so I could be prepared.
I made a comment that opened the possibility of discussion from a viewpoint totally contradictory to the one my friend had intended. Not only that but by making this comment and not qualifying it on their wall I implied they were guilty of the view I purported Not only that I did in a place that everyone would see it and I am not only this person's friend I am their pastor as well. I am sure I am missing something....
Anyway this brought me to my knees and just crushed my spirit thinking I had wounded and caused my friend such needless and pointless pain. I quickly sat down and prayed for forgiveness from My Lord and Savior, Jesus then got on FB and publicly acknowledged my sin and sought forgiveness from my friend.
I share all this for a number of reasons. The first being how carelessly we post comments on FB. I have said on countless occasions that FB seems to be the new diary(sp??). I was like that turtle who just popped out to see what it was like without looking around to see where I was or who would be affected. My challenge then is to reevaluate how you comment and respond to friends and family on FB from now on. Be thoughtful, considerate. Don't be quick and pithy it just may be more hurtful than you realize.
The second reason is to share some guidelines that may influence how you tweet, comment or share in the future.
Think about who's wall I am on. Is this my wall or someone else's? I may say somethings on my wall that I fully accept responsibility for but commenting on someone else's post may bring accountability to them that you never intended.
Consider the other person in as many ways as you possibly can no matter if they are your friend or not. You may not know that they have been sick or that a family member died, or they lost their job, etc. Consider how the other person will respond to, feel about, understand, etc, your comment. Walk a mile in their shoes before you comment.
You and I may be friends but I would never go over to your home and vandalize the decorations or signs on your front lawn. I would never paint over the pictures in your living room or the mirror in your bathroom with graphitti and gang signs.
However, when I post comments carelessly that bring you hurt, discouragement or embarrassment on your wall or to your accounts, I, in fact, have entered your personal space, your home, where you are safe and secure, and have vandalized your property publicly. Consider that next time before you get upset about someone not keeping their word and just ripping them up on FB on their wall.
Consider what level of trust your relationship has. The average person could say things to someone that would be harmless and laughable, but if you are a teacher, a coach, a youth leader, a pastor, to say some of those same things would cut to the bone because of the relational trust you have with that individual.
Lastly, don't get all bound up like you would after eating cheese from reading this. Have fun, enjoy your relationships, joke, laugh, instruct, learn even provoke on a occasions. Just remember to ask for forgiveness immediately when you offend and cross the line. Don't let pride destroy what can be such an incredible blessing.
My final reason for writing this is that making a mistake unintentionally does not mean you are malicious or broken. It is a tool in the hand of an ever perfecting God who invades our lives with His amazing Grace to show us what we need to learn and how to grow. God's grace empowers us to seek forgiveness and to forgive. It empowers us to teach others from our mistakes and to learn from ours and others mistakes. It empowers us to love the unlovable even when we are unlovable.
I hope this helps you as it has reminded me about how influential my words are even if I think they are not. God continues to take this ragged man of sin and by His grace shape and form me into a prince of glory, a child of the King of Kings. A royal ambassador.
I pray we will meet again for coffee and conversation if you have a differing view or comments you would like to add feel free.
Till next time enjoy your journey from ragged to royal.......
Have you ever been busy and engrossed in whatever you were doing like a turtle with your head in your shell. You stop for a moment pop your head out look up, you see the sun shining the clouds float by and pop your head back in to your shell and think wow it's great outside I think I will get out of my shell and enjoy the world for awhile. You pop your head out and get the rest of yourself out of the shell only to realize that where you find yourself is in the middle of the freeway with cars racing by and dodging horns blaring and possibly the sudden calamity of .... I think my analogy will work from there.
I found this happened to me yesterday. I popped my head out after being buried deep in my studies and sermon preparations to hop on FB awhile just to blow off steam and see what was going on in the world around ME.
I came across a quote on a dear friends wall, without thinking, and trying to sound as pithy and profound as I could I made my comment that would change all of history as we know it, or at least in my small mind anyway. I moved on didn't think any more about it and later on that night went to bed and slept quite peacefully I might add.
When I awoke, as is my custom, I checked my emails + FB messages to delete the trash and don't bother with ones, and to prioritize the one that are left for my reply's. I came across a message from my friend and before I could get past the first sentence I realized that my pithy and profound comment had wounded and offended them. I thought very humbly to myself... how could what I have written been offensive to them they must have a problem I won't worry about it. That didn't settle it and the Holy Spirit wouldn't let me forget it either.
The struggle of humbling yourself before a Holy God is huge and I personally hate even possibly considering that I could be wrong in any way. Between the gnawing pangs in my conscience and the racing replays of my comments I relented because of the awesome power of God. Like I would have won any way, not a chance.
The Holy Spirit began to show me where I had acted like this turtle analogy I shared earlier. I popped my head out to see what was going on with out looking to see where I was so I could be prepared.
I made a comment that opened the possibility of discussion from a viewpoint totally contradictory to the one my friend had intended. Not only that but by making this comment and not qualifying it on their wall I implied they were guilty of the view I purported Not only that I did in a place that everyone would see it and I am not only this person's friend I am their pastor as well. I am sure I am missing something....
Anyway this brought me to my knees and just crushed my spirit thinking I had wounded and caused my friend such needless and pointless pain. I quickly sat down and prayed for forgiveness from My Lord and Savior, Jesus then got on FB and publicly acknowledged my sin and sought forgiveness from my friend.
I share all this for a number of reasons. The first being how carelessly we post comments on FB. I have said on countless occasions that FB seems to be the new diary(sp??). I was like that turtle who just popped out to see what it was like without looking around to see where I was or who would be affected. My challenge then is to reevaluate how you comment and respond to friends and family on FB from now on. Be thoughtful, considerate. Don't be quick and pithy it just may be more hurtful than you realize.
The second reason is to share some guidelines that may influence how you tweet, comment or share in the future.
Think about who's wall I am on. Is this my wall or someone else's? I may say somethings on my wall that I fully accept responsibility for but commenting on someone else's post may bring accountability to them that you never intended.
Consider the other person in as many ways as you possibly can no matter if they are your friend or not. You may not know that they have been sick or that a family member died, or they lost their job, etc. Consider how the other person will respond to, feel about, understand, etc, your comment. Walk a mile in their shoes before you comment.
You and I may be friends but I would never go over to your home and vandalize the decorations or signs on your front lawn. I would never paint over the pictures in your living room or the mirror in your bathroom with graphitti and gang signs.
However, when I post comments carelessly that bring you hurt, discouragement or embarrassment on your wall or to your accounts, I, in fact, have entered your personal space, your home, where you are safe and secure, and have vandalized your property publicly. Consider that next time before you get upset about someone not keeping their word and just ripping them up on FB on their wall.
Consider what level of trust your relationship has. The average person could say things to someone that would be harmless and laughable, but if you are a teacher, a coach, a youth leader, a pastor, to say some of those same things would cut to the bone because of the relational trust you have with that individual.
Lastly, don't get all bound up like you would after eating cheese from reading this. Have fun, enjoy your relationships, joke, laugh, instruct, learn even provoke on a occasions. Just remember to ask for forgiveness immediately when you offend and cross the line. Don't let pride destroy what can be such an incredible blessing.
My final reason for writing this is that making a mistake unintentionally does not mean you are malicious or broken. It is a tool in the hand of an ever perfecting God who invades our lives with His amazing Grace to show us what we need to learn and how to grow. God's grace empowers us to seek forgiveness and to forgive. It empowers us to teach others from our mistakes and to learn from ours and others mistakes. It empowers us to love the unlovable even when we are unlovable.
I hope this helps you as it has reminded me about how influential my words are even if I think they are not. God continues to take this ragged man of sin and by His grace shape and form me into a prince of glory, a child of the King of Kings. A royal ambassador.
I pray we will meet again for coffee and conversation if you have a differing view or comments you would like to add feel free.
Till next time enjoy your journey from ragged to royal.......
Friday, April 20, 2012
Welcome!!!
Well, a deep subject with water in it normally shallow minds talk about it. Probably not your most ordinary mode of initiating a blog but it suites me. The purpose of this blog is to encourage, disciple, empower individuals to be transformed by the Love of Jesus found in the Bible. Trading in the old clunker life of sin, beat up and ragged, for the grace and peace and joy of royalty. Come along and join me on this incredible adventure of transformation from Ragged to Royal.
Colossians 1:9-14"For this reason also, since the day we heard of it, we have not ceased to pray for you and to ask that you may be filled with the knowledge of His will in all spiritual wisdom and understanding, 10 so that you will walk in a manner worthy of the Lord, to please Him in all respects, bearing fruit in every good work and increasing in the knowledge of God; 11 strengthened with all power, according to His glorious might, for the attaining of all steadfastness and patience; joyously 12 giving thanks to the Father, who has qualified us to share in the inheritance of the saints in Light. 13 For He rescued us from the domain of darkness, and transferred us to the kingdom of His beloved Son, 14 in whom we have redemption, the forgiveness of sins."
Blessings -
Pastor Glen
Colossians 1:9-14"For this reason also, since the day we heard of it, we have not ceased to pray for you and to ask that you may be filled with the knowledge of His will in all spiritual wisdom and understanding, 10 so that you will walk in a manner worthy of the Lord, to please Him in all respects, bearing fruit in every good work and increasing in the knowledge of God; 11 strengthened with all power, according to His glorious might, for the attaining of all steadfastness and patience; joyously 12 giving thanks to the Father, who has qualified us to share in the inheritance of the saints in Light. 13 For He rescued us from the domain of darkness, and transferred us to the kingdom of His beloved Son, 14 in whom we have redemption, the forgiveness of sins."
Blessings -
Pastor Glen
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